Rants

Three Things I Learned from Betrayal

Three Things I Learned from Betrayal

Betrayal is one of those things you think you understand — until it happens to you. It’s not just pain. Pain has an endpoint. Betrayal lingers. It seeps into your trust, your judgment, your sleep. It makes you question your instincts — the very ones you’ve spent your...

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RIP to Accessible Concerts

RIP to Accessible Concerts

This is not your standard “Old Man Shakes Fist At Sky” rant. This is about the death of live music for most of the population. When I went to my first Rush show in 1980, I got great seats in the Red section of Maple Leaf Gardens for the whopping sum of 15 bucks...

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No One Will Marry Us

No One Will Marry Us

The author reflects on being booked for a wedding that requires a lengthy drive due to the local religious leaders’ refusal to officiate for a gay couple. This experience reinforces their anti-religious stance and skepticism about future acceptance of LGBTQ+ individuals, influenced by growing conservative beliefs and moral interpretations rooted in religion.

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The Big Epiphany – That’s Why I’m Here

The Big Epiphany – That’s Why I’m Here

I always felt like a bit of an imposter – that people’s expectations of me were far higher than I could ever achieve. But recent events have since brought me to the realization that I have left a positive mark on this earth – no matter how small – and that focusing on those things will lead me to a fulfilled future. So I am taking it seriously.

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ON TURNING 50

When I turned 36 in 2003, I wrote this brief blog on my family website rismania.com: “I’m so bald. And fat. I shouldn’t have skipped so many classes in high school. I shouldn’t have listened to my friend Corey when he dared me to jump in that river when I was 18 – my...

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